black widow(er) effect

[David Dalton]

Incompatible relationships are an abomination, so for a gay man
(man attracted just to men) to have sex with a woman, often by
thinking of a man who is not there, or for a lesbian (woman
attracted just to women) to have sex with a man, sometimes
by thinking of a woman who is not there, is an abomination.

And associated with that is a black widow effect, when a lesbian
is married to a man the man’s lifespan is shortened, and a
black widower effect, when a gay man is married to a woman
the woman’s lifespan is shortened. (That does not apply to
platonic gay--lesbian parental units.)

One example of this that I intuited with my past matchmaking
ability is that UN Secretary General Antonio Guterres is
gay, and that resulted in the early death of his first wife.
However he is optimally sexually compatible with his
current wife, who is bimT.

[Queer Senior]

This makes sense! As one who accepted and embraced the fact that I was Gay even well before my teens, I can tell you that I have never been attracted to, nor have I desired to have sex with any woman. I have even had people try to fix me up with an opposite-sex partner with the hope that this would "correct" me, but I just had no interest or desire to even meet the lady. I have also taken a lot of condemnation about my sexuality over the years, particularly when I was in my teens and early 20s, and it was suggested I be subjected to conversion therapy. My mother, being a devout Catholic and also a fanatical, militant Homophobe did try to push me into it, but my father stepped in and put a stop to it. I was happy with my boyfriend, and he accepted me for that.

I have to say something here, and that is that the push to get me into that accursed therapy came, as I said, from my mother, who was a bible-thumper. She also blindsided me one day having the priest and several church members at the house when I came to visit (I was on my own by the time I was 22 and was finished college). They literally cornered me and started to preach how the bible, the book of extreme hate, said I should be put to death, and I needed to change. That was the last time I had anything to do with church and religion. Thankfully, the current Liberal government banned that barbaric practice! Although, it's well known that if Pierre Poilievre gets the leadership of the federal conservative party, and he gets an election and becomes Prime Minister, conversion therapy will be reinstated, and the Gay lifestyle will be returned to the criminal code as a crime punishable by death. He also has the backing of several religious extremist leaders like David Cooke of CitizenGo; Jack Fonseca who represents an anti-LGBTQ hate group called Campaign Life Coalition, and a group called Liberty Coalition, who has initiated a hate campaign against the Liberal government for their banning of conversion therapy. Mr. Cooke is a particularly deranged and extremely dangerous extremist.

Anyway, getting back to my comment, like I stated, I have no desire to have a relationship with a member of the opposite sex, even if she was a Lesbian. Anyone I want to have a relationship with has to have a penis!

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On Thursday, June 30, 2022 at 1:01:43 AM UTC-4, David Dalton wrote: